Confession and advice

[SiliaOnly]

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة Sadinne

Well, I don't have "People" problems, cause well..I don't care about anyone, and I act the same way you do, I love that feeling when someone comes over and they're so nice to me while they were talking about me just a minute ago, and I'm here like smiling and pretending that I believe them and that I have no idea about it xD

I think the main problems I have in my life, are my messed up relationship with my familly (except my dad) and the fact that I'm freaking out about my bac next year, especially cause I have a HUGE math issue T_T

concerning your messed up relashioship with your family members I advise you to try to understand their behaviour, instead of taking it as constant habit take it as a consequence of some conditions, I mean if your brother or sister always bothers you or says you the thing that you don't want to hear, put yourself out of the situation and tell yourself if I was a third person how would I see all this, when you take a step out of yourself you will be less desapointed toward your brother or sister, because you will find them some excuses and you will be able to control the situation because you have understand the situation in all its aspects , otherwise when you get criticized and you stay close to yourself you will always refuse that critic, but if you stand just in the middle between yourself and your family members (not that easy) you will find out that no one critisize you if you were perfect and there are always a direct or undirect reason for that critic, just say they are 50 % right and I am 50% right

concerning your bac , my dear don't fear failure, don't think to failure at all, if you have and must think about bac think about university and what would you like to do as studies, and try to connect each branch of study with a module you are studying now or next year, be more clever and don't waste your time and energy thinking to bad things that haven't even accure in your life

[SiliaOnly]

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?

[CANIM]

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة SiliaOnly

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?

at this time I don't know better and efficient way to chase envy and jealousy than repeating instantanly allah names during the day ,

[Sadinne]

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة SiliaOnly

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?

I'm not the kind of person, who's like "People envy me, that's why this or that is happening to me" either, but trust me sooner or later you'll meet people who'll truely make you feel like they envy you, it's like...They can't hide it, it's just so obvious
Green eye, might be the reason for some things in your life, and it might not be
I don't know what kind of bad things are going on in your life right now, but I believe that if you haven't done anything wrong that god might be punishing you for, then maybe it's just a test from god, to see how strong your faith is, and if you'll seek his strength to fight against your problems, or if you'll just go the wrong way
And Allah a3lam you know xD

[CANIM]

I wanted to help a friend I tried to be close to him but he refused to confess what is making his heart heavy, I know that he is suffering and want to relieve his soul through talking to someone but he didn't, I worry about him because he stand by my side in hard time, and because he is kind and devoted to his friends, how could I push him to talk about what hurts him

[7med]

help only those who asked for your help! if you want to help by force you risk to deplease the one you wanted to help