please i need ur opinion ..

[mina1995]

hey! wat's up guys! .. well i hav a small essue i gess..hh
well this is a subject maybe most of u is dealing with it ..okey okey i'll cut 2 the chase ..
i have a little sister ..she keeps followin me whenever n wherever i go , she keeps coping everything i do and it start 2 disturbe me .. so please my sweet freinds i need ur opinion about this thing ..why she is doin this? what should i do ? ..
thank u! im waitin ur replys !

[biba_g]

cuz she loves u Amina..u r a model an Idol maybe.......to her
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.May God bless u sis

[Karim-Rap-4-Life]

Hello
Maybe I should not reply on this matter it seems for girls only but I can put my word
Look it's so funny to have your sister chasing you open your eyes sister
she loves you
If she don't like being with you why she would follow you just deal with it
and tell her that you love her but you need some privacy that will solve the problem I think

good luck

[mina1995]

amm..i gess that's true ! h.h silly me
thank you ''biba_g'' & "Karim-Rap-4-Life" it's okey bro! i thank u 4 ur point of vue
!may allah bless both of u!

[algeria 03]

u r anoind that ur sister is copying u!
she s doing it because she sees u as her idol that she would want to be when she s the same age as you, u shouldnt be angry, u should be watching ur self and every thing u do because she s learning from u, be a good example for her to follow, and dont tell her to go away or to stop copying u, u r her big sister, try to be a good one and dont push her away. because if she didnt love u and see u as the perfect picture she wants to be she wouldnt be copying u, so please be a good idol.
good luck

[mina1995]

thanks!! i appriciate ur opinon " algeria 03" .. i know that i should be a good example 4 her ..im tryiing my best but she does that alot sometimes she does that to annoy me in perpuse ..& well i need some privacy sometimes! ill do my best thanks guys that's so n!ce of u!!

[Amany Queen]

hey Mina !
hope u'r doing well !

well , i'm facing the same prblm bt with my niece , she's imitating me in everything which i do
she starts to speak nd even walk like me
bt i amn't angry or annoyed , by contrast , i'm so proud for her , i'm seeing myself in her
i discover my mis-habits so 'im trying to update them
be happy Coz she made u number one for her
be carefull abt ur speech , activities nd maybe even ur thinking
u said that u need a little bit of privacy ( oh i doubt in u ^^ ) , so do wht u wanna in hidden of her






May ALLAH Bless her <3

[mina1995]

hhhhh!! thanks "amany" it's not like im hiding things 4m her or anyone ..i just need to stay alone sometimes i think u understand
anyone needs to have its private time doing activities.. right? ^^ thank u rabby ye7fdkom kamel!!

[رثاآء]

it's sweet to have a younger sister around,
and it's better for her to have you as a role model
most of kids copy their moms and dads and in your situation she's copying you,
you should try your best to be the great role model that she can ever have
lucky you!

[Amany Queen]

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hhhhh!! thanks "amany" it's not like im hiding things 4m her or anyone ..i just need to stay alone sometimes i think u understand
anyone needs to have its private time doing activities.. right? ^^ thank u rabby ye7fdkom kamel!!

Lool , y'r funny girl
Yeah , with no doubt i agree with u , bt try to avoid her when u need to be alone

Peace

[" أبو عبود"]

this is not a problem at all and tus you can make her change. just ask her to do something and when she does it tell herM " oh you did it just like I do it, you have to make it different otherwise people will always say that you are my shadow and you have a weak personality". keep on criticizing her and she will change 180 degrees. noone like to be a copy of another one. she is just immitating you at this age but later she will do anything to make herself different from you.

[إفتكار]

maybe she is just impressed by you, when she will grow up the matter will change, she will recognize herself, her personality, and maybe she ll regret what she did. LOL

[Sadinne]

Salam & Saha Ftorkoum!

Well, first of all you're SO lucky to have a little sister! & My niece used to do the exact same thing as your sister when she was younger, she would follow me EVERYWHERE non-stop, & she would do everything I would do, it bothered me a lot too.

But as I grew up, I realized it was out of love & I really appreciated what she was doing, your sister will eventually grow up too & you should take advantage of this to bring her closer to you, so once she's a teenager she will tell you anything & everything, don't push her away now then wonder why isn't she telling you her secrets when she's older & why isn't she taking your advice or listening to you.

I hope my advice helped a little.

Best of luck dear ^_^

[{Rim}]

hahahah i think you ought to kill here and live the rest of your life with hapiness .... just kidding
i'm suffring from the same problem so if you find a solution tell me
Peace