Trust

polina03 · 2011-02-21, 20:12

Trust

Trust is a two way street; you get it if you give it. For example: if you want your parents to Trust you try trusting them with the truth about what is going on in your life, if you want a relationship built on Trust you have to Trust in the other person as much as you do in yourself.

Parents will usually give Trust freely until you do something to break it. If this isn't the case in your family and you really can't see why your parents don't Trust you just come right out and ask them for an explanation.

Sometimes people don't Trust you because of the actions of a person close to you. It is all too common for the behavior of older siblings or friends to cause parents and teachers to doubt you. Accept that this is what is happening, don't fight it, and work at proving that in spite of the actions of others you can be trusted.

Sometimes Trust has to be earned. If you had Trust but did something to break it, it is possible to fix things. But in doing so remember that as the Trust breaker you don't get to set the expectations, terms or time frame for earning that Trust back.

In order to fix broken Trust both sides have to want the Trust back. You can never force a person to Trust you.

Your parents want to Trust you! What you see as mistrust of you could really be fear, mistrust of those around you and/or their natural protective instincts at work.

Some people have been so badly hurt in the past that they have great difficulty trusting others. If you have a person like this in your life accept that there will always be an element of mistrust in your relationship and be prepared to work overtime to prove that you can be trusted.

Trust is an essential part of ALL successful relationships be they academic, romantic, friendly or familial. .

Trust is a gift - you give it and you receive it. It should never be taken for granted.

Glee · 2011-02-23, 08:16

this the 2nd time that this happens i posted and didnt find itt anywaaayy
thnx Poli its really a good topic and evry word of it is TOTTALY WRITE
and some ppl do take this 'gift' granted and theres this kind of a lot of ppl who doesn't even bother to earn it nor give it but Allah may keep us away from them .
really thnx Polii I love ur subjects

polina03 · 2011-02-23, 18:16

thankssss bro...I'm really thankfull that in this Forum there is one like u..coz u r the only person who has marbles about my sopjects
so really thanks my brother

Glee · 2011-02-23, 18:44

No Problem Sist and I'm glad too, to find someone like urself here just by being honest and not Judgmental even here theres this kind of bad ppl but you are OK & Beyond then OKKK siist
thhhhhnxxx & taake caaare
P.S sometimes I have this wired erg to use as much smiles as I can

canard · 2011-02-23, 21:37

this is my problem i can't trust for annnnnnnnyyyyyyyyyy body
ma3ada mes parents

polina03 · 2011-02-27, 13:06

but u must not trust to any one u must know hem very well!
ok

فراشة حزن · 2011-03-03, 20:14

we all want to be trusted
it's true that trust in people is a difficult thing; but the most difficult in to find someone who deseves your trust

polina03 · 2011-03-04, 18:55

that's true my dear Butterfly
it's very hard