How to make people happy? 0

[hairless17]

Of course ...

[أم بدر الدين]

Thanks fo sharing the same opinion

[hairless17]

You are always welcome

[hairless17]

What do you feel when you want to make someone happy and instead you make him/her sad ?0

[Cheddad]

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What do you feel when you want to make someone happy and instead you make him/her sad ?0

I will try to make him/her sad in a hope he/she will have the reverse effect just kidding. To be honest with you, I would revise my attitudes, way of talking and possibly sincerity. Imagine, some1 wants to give you a bunch of beautiful flowers as a gift but instead he/she threw it on a table and says "that is for you". Some people have the tendency to hurt while in their minds think otherwise, and that is due to lack of experience probably.

[hairless17]

Thanks brother
your presence is always special

[أم بدر الدين]

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What do you feel when you want to make someone happy and instead you make him/her sad ?0

The first thing i do is apologizing ;if he /she gets the point i will be happy if not the only thing i do is to be happy because i know my intention which was making him/her happy..these things happen frequently

[hairless17]

It is very courag ous from your part

[أم بدر الدين]

Thank you but satisfying the others is a dream so i don't need to make myself too sad for something which seems to be a dream

[Cheddad]

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Thank you but satisfying the others is a dream so i don't need to make myself too sad for something which seems to be a dream

That was a nice addition sister. I agree with you to some extent. It is worth noting, however, that in some cases “others” are not to be blamed. It is always easy to point the condemning finger to others and we find it quite hard to search in ourselves whether our approach to handle things is correct.

[أم بدر الدين]

Believe me sir that sometimes you feel that you are doing good things but the others don't need you at all for their stupid reasons

[Cheddad]

Maybe you are right. That is why one should be prudent to where he/she places his/her kindness. I live in different culture now so I am not in current of the changes in l’eblad. Dealing with people is a risky art sometimes.

[أم بدر الدين]

Maybe you are right. That is why one should be prudent to where he/she places his/her kindness

I really appreciate this answer brother,thank you

[Cheddad]

You are most welcome sister. Wish you all the best.

[أم بدر الدين]

Thank you too much ; brother